For centuries, flowers have been love’s quiet messengers, pretty yet powerful, beautiful yet meaningful. A bouquet on its own can speak volumes, and when paired with a heartfelt gesture, it’s pure magic. But love isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. The way we show affection, and how our partners best receive it, can vary widely. That’s where Gary Chapman’s five love languages, our individual passions, and the seven romance styles come into play. At Shotwell Floral in Fargo, North Dakota, we use this thoughtful framework to help you select blooms that connect on a deeper level. Whether it’s for a partner who loves words of affirmation or who thrives on quality time, we have ideas that make your gesture feel like it was made just for them.

Wake Them Up With The Smell of Their Favorite Breakfast and Blooms

If your partner lights up at thoughtful actions, breakfast in bed will absolutely melt their heart. Begin by placing fresh flowers near their bedside for a gentle, fragrant surprise as they wake. Then, serve up their tried-and-true breakfast staples, whether that’s flaky croissants, fresh fruit, or simply a strong cup of coffee. Add a linen napkin and a handwritten note for extra elegance. The finishing touch? Clearing the tray when they’re done and leaving no mess behind. For someone whose love language is acts of service, these tasks speak volumes. It’s care, comfort, and romance — all before they even get out of bed.

Surprise Them with Plane Tickets, a Bouquet, and Grand Travel Plans

Exploring new places together creates memories that last far beyond the trip itself. That’s why travel makes such a perfect gift for the partner who treasures time spent together and meaningful investment. From train rides through wine country to a tropical escape across the world, present your plans with a bouquet you know they’ll love. Tucked alongside tickets or an itinerary, the blooms add a romantic, sensory moment to the surprise. In the days before departure, they’ll serve as a daily reminder of the adventure — and the love — that awaits.

Attend a Floral Design Class Together

For some partners, love is best expressed through shared experiences. When you join them in an activity they enjoy, or explore something new together, it deepens the connection in a genuine way. A flower design class makes for a delightful, creative date where you can relax, chat, and collaborate on design. You’ll both get to express your unique style while creating something gorgeous. And the best part? Your partner gets to bring their bouquet home as a lasting reminder of your time together. It’s a fun, thoughtful way to nurture love and creativity in one sweet package.

Send Them a Monthly Flower Subscription

Emotional support isn’t always about the big moments; it’s about showing up again and again. For loved ones who bloom with consistent emotional support, a monthly flower delivery is a meaningful way to offer presence and care. Customize the blossoms with their favorites or let each bouquet share a new message through thoughtful colors and seasonal varieties. Personalize your card with words that match their heart to comfort, inspire, or simply say “I see you.” Especially if you’re apart, this ritual bridges the distance with something beautiful and intentional. It’s love, blooming on repeat, and perfectly tuned to what they need.

Pair Flowers with a Romantic Gift

Romantic flowers like lush roses, delicate anemones, elegant orchids, or vibrant tulips are always a stunning way to say “You’re my whole world.” But for someone whose favorite love language happens to be receiving gifts, extra thought goes a long way. Pairing a bouquet with something personal such as artisan chocolates, luxury bath essentials, elegant jewelry, or a gift inspired by their favorite pastime amplifies the gesture. These extras show that you know what brings them joy and love to see them feel it. It’s a great way to show your partner that you appreciate their uniqueness and treasure their presence in the world.

Every relationship is unique, shaped by personal interests and the ways we love. Tailoring flowers and gifts to match your partner’s romantic style makes each moment more meaningful. At Shotwell Floral, we’re standing by, honored to help you turn your emotions into exquisite expressions with arrangements that feel as personal as your story.